Sometimes singles flock to the Internet looking for companions because they are bored. They aren't much interested in anything serious just a casual dating relationship where someone or a group of singles will suggest some things to do so that they are no longer feeling bored. Once a person notices that he or she is often the one coming up with conversation, places to go, things to see, and so on, he or she will eventually fade out of the boring individual's life. The bored person may or may not think he or she is the cause.
As we all know, it takes two to have a relationship not just one, and if you know by your very nature you are not an interesting person, consider working on that, because fun, exciting, creative, and intelligent types, who enjoy their lives, will one day get tired of you sooner or later.
Nicholl McGuire maintains a blog about dating and relationships here.