Monday
Bored Housewives
With the children pretty much self-sufficient and the household is decorated, often clean and organized, what more is there really to do for the bored housewife? She has to find something to do.
Many bored housewives become this way because they don't bother to do things that make them feel good. Rather, they look to others and their current surroundings to rescue them from feelings of boredom, good luck. Talking to relatives and friends get old, home upgrades are stressful and expensive, and the newness of purchases grows old quickly. The bored housewife must find what interests her and it just might be going outside of the home to find out.
The thought of leaving the comfort of one's home may scare some, because these housewives have grown accustomed to being "kept" women. Their husbands, mothers or possibly grandparents have encouraged them to be at home for any number of reasons. Some men don't mind partners being at home because they are insecure and jealous. They fear that if their beautiful wives find employment, become independent, and do other things for their selves, the marriage just might be threatened. However, if the bored housewife doesn't come out of her shell when she innately wants more out of life, the marriage will still have its share of challenges.
When one is bored, one is idle. She may do and say things she shouldn't. The housewife might take risks with her money and body to rid herself of bored feelings. She might even consider leaving her family if emotions of boredom persist. Although at times, we all can resist change, when you are bored, you find yourself being open to it. You start thinking, "What more should I do with my life? Where can I go to feel fulfilled? What more do I need to do to feel content?"
If you or someone you know is a bored housewife, encourage them to utilize their talents to do more with their lives other than be at home worried about family, friends, etc.
Nicholl McGuire author of Laboring to Love Myself
Many bored housewives become this way because they don't bother to do things that make them feel good. Rather, they look to others and their current surroundings to rescue them from feelings of boredom, good luck. Talking to relatives and friends get old, home upgrades are stressful and expensive, and the newness of purchases grows old quickly. The bored housewife must find what interests her and it just might be going outside of the home to find out.
The thought of leaving the comfort of one's home may scare some, because these housewives have grown accustomed to being "kept" women. Their husbands, mothers or possibly grandparents have encouraged them to be at home for any number of reasons. Some men don't mind partners being at home because they are insecure and jealous. They fear that if their beautiful wives find employment, become independent, and do other things for their selves, the marriage just might be threatened. However, if the bored housewife doesn't come out of her shell when she innately wants more out of life, the marriage will still have its share of challenges.
When one is bored, one is idle. She may do and say things she shouldn't. The housewife might take risks with her money and body to rid herself of bored feelings. She might even consider leaving her family if emotions of boredom persist. Although at times, we all can resist change, when you are bored, you find yourself being open to it. You start thinking, "What more should I do with my life? Where can I go to feel fulfilled? What more do I need to do to feel content?"
If you or someone you know is a bored housewife, encourage them to utilize their talents to do more with their lives other than be at home worried about family, friends, etc.
Nicholl McGuire author of Laboring to Love Myself
Friday
Bored While Unemployed?
If one is diligently seeking employment, how can he or she be bored? Well, it happens. People are so accustomed to going somewhere and doing some many things for eight to 10 hours that they get bored being at home. Here are some things you can do while being productive about your job search:
1. Prepare a plan when it comes to job searching. Take out a piece of paper. Create a checklist you can use daily. List things like: Networking Opportunities, Job Fairs, Positions Applied for, Items needed, Classes to Take, Places to Go, etc. include dates, times and contact information. Make notes each day on your progress.
2. Visit places/areas you would like to work even if you have no contact or appointment there. You just might feel re-energized when you are touring in the community you want to work.
3. Learn more about the companies you desire to work and check others' experiences at review sites.
4. Interview people in your industry to learn more about latest trends.
5. Research ideas on starting your own business. Maybe working for others is not what you really want to do.
6. Participate in community events such as volunteer service.
7. Update wardrobe include items that are attractive and comfortable.
Avoid feelings of boredom, by doing something different each day besides watching TV, surfing the Internet without purpose, or involving yourself in people, places and things that are negative and of little benefit. Make time for those you care about and share thoughts with them, maybe they can help you reach goals. For instance, have another set of eyes review your resume(s) and cover letter(s) for errors.
Nicholl McGuire also maintains a blog dedicated to Workplace Problems and Solutions here.
1. Prepare a plan when it comes to job searching. Take out a piece of paper. Create a checklist you can use daily. List things like: Networking Opportunities, Job Fairs, Positions Applied for, Items needed, Classes to Take, Places to Go, etc. include dates, times and contact information. Make notes each day on your progress.
2. Visit places/areas you would like to work even if you have no contact or appointment there. You just might feel re-energized when you are touring in the community you want to work.
3. Learn more about the companies you desire to work and check others' experiences at review sites.
4. Interview people in your industry to learn more about latest trends.
5. Research ideas on starting your own business. Maybe working for others is not what you really want to do.
6. Participate in community events such as volunteer service.
7. Update wardrobe include items that are attractive and comfortable.
Avoid feelings of boredom, by doing something different each day besides watching TV, surfing the Internet without purpose, or involving yourself in people, places and things that are negative and of little benefit. Make time for those you care about and share thoughts with them, maybe they can help you reach goals. For instance, have another set of eyes review your resume(s) and cover letter(s) for errors.
Nicholl McGuire also maintains a blog dedicated to Workplace Problems and Solutions here.
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